Monday, February 15, 2010

How Bad Do You Wanna Know?

The Yahoos and I went up to Denver today
to Cherry Creek Mall...
we'd never been there,
no not in the 13+ years we've lived in Colorado.
Never.

The only store I loved was
Anthropologie.
So. cute.

But that's not what I wanna share.

So we're sitting on a garden wall
waiting for some of our gang
to come out of Urban Outfitters
and some of our gang
to come back from the Loo--
when I look down the way a bit
to see a very very elderly man
slowly shuffling his way towards
our end of the Mall.

His steps are teeny tiny baby steps,
his arms are swinging in unison,
as tho he is using them to push him along.

I whisper to Daisie so she can notice him too.
She has been very much a 14-going-on-fifteen-year-old
lately...
you know what I'm talking about:
self-absorbed, curt, whiny, some moments I am
exasperated by her--
I wanted her to see something real--
someone whose struggles
were on the outside
easy to see
and perhaps sympathize.

She watched his motions
as his path crossed right in front of us,
her heart melted,
she said,
"I wonder if he needs help?"
I looked into her eyes
and said,
"How bad do you wanna know?"

She winced for a moment--
thought about it,
then stood up
and walked over to him--
immediately the rest of my yahoos' eyes
were fixed on their sister.
They hadn't heard our conversation
but they had certainly seen the man.
When Daisie got to him,
his eyes lit up
a broad smile surfaced on his lips
and I heard him say to her
request,
"God bless you.
God bless you.
God bless you."
-- in broken english.
And he put one of his arms on her shoulder,
looking deep into her eyes.
He shook his head no
and kept shuffling
until he was outta sight.

When she returned to me,
her eyes met mine
and we both teared-up.
I told her I was so proud of her
and hugged her guts!


She said it reminded her of some show she had seen
where an actor
pretended to need help
to see who would step up and offer it.

I told her it reminded me of the Savior
who said,
"Inasmuch as ye have
done it unto the least of these,
my brethren,
ye have done it unto me."

21 comments:

  1. Oh wow, I totally teared up reading this. "How bad do you wanna know..." What a great question, and what a sweet daughter you have.

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  2. Amazing mom and daughter:) I could just remain here all day . . .

    It always touches my heart as a parent to see that somewhere along the way, these principles have found their place, sometimes when you least expect it. Makes my heart just want to overflow :)

    Kristin

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  3. I am crying. This was beautiful. What a neat, neat lesson Daisie had, and a wonderful moment I am sure she will never forget.
    Thanks for sharing it really touched my heart.

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  4. What a wonderful teaching moment. Thank you so much for sharing.

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  5. aww. What a wonderful teaching moment. I live for those days. It makes all the tough stuff worth it. Way to seize the moment mom!

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  6. What a great mom you are! And what a sweet daughter too!

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  7. That is a wonderful story. What a great lesson for your daughter (and yourself and your other kids). I love the gratitude the man showed, even though he choose to not need the help.

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  8. That was a perfect parenting moment, and you managed it perfectly. "How bad do you wanna know?" I love that!

    In fact, this whole post got me all teary.

    In a REALLY good way.

    =)

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  9. What a great teaching moment! I bet she'll remember that the rest of her life. Go Momza!

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  10. What a great story. I love it when I am able to make good use of a teaching moment. I am sure I miss much too many, however. Kudos to you for recognizing it and giving her an experience she will probably always remember.

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  11. What a wonderful moment in time. So many hearts touched.

    Thanks for coming by. The door is always open!

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  12. Beautiful, beautiful.

    Wise momza. So, so wise.

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  13. thanks for the story and the good cry.

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  14. Way to make me cry.

    What a sweet girl.

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  15. thanks mom for the wonderful lesson. i felt so wonderful after just offering my service to him. nice story. i love reading your blog. sorry i've been all of 14/15 lately. It's just the age, i promise. Love you.

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  16. Man, just when you think you have them figured out they go and do something so Celestial. She will never forget this small moment in her life either. You have given her the greatest gift... she felt the spirit!

    Roxanne

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  17. Beautiful - tearing up!!!! You have given me hope for the day when my girls turn to teenagers!!!

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  18. Oh my gosh this has me bawling my eyes out way too early in the morning! What a beautiful moment. One that you, your little girl and that man will have permanently impressed on your hearts forever.

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  19. You've got good kids.

    As a teenager I probably would've turned up my nose and pretended I hadn't seen.

    She may be 14-going-on-fifteen, but she'll never forget that day.

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  20. This was beautiful. You're raising your kids right!

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